You can decide to be a winner or a loser. However, what you choose is not just going to happen, you must make it happen. What is the secret of success? There is no easy secret, and you must jump at each opportunity. You may ask, “How can I tell when my opportunity comes?” “Sometimes you can’t, you just keep jumping.”
The problem for many people is the critic within them. Any time they come across a good idea or an opportunity that could really change their life, they find some negative aspect to it or some fault or weakness. Turn the impossible or the challenges in your life into probabilities by looking for the possibilities.